although you turn the dfu mode in the VNM device but you havent seen it in "Universal Serial Bus Controller", "Other Device",..
1. Open Windown Power Shell
Type command
Get-PnpDevice -PresentOnly | Where-Object { $_.InstanceId -match '^USB' }
Here you will see all usb device. now find "STM32 BOOTLOADER", "STM32 in DFU MODE", "DFU in FS Mode" => the PC already find VNM device in DFU mode, you have to find it in device manager.
Need install driver if it shows "STM32 BOOTLOADER". (download driver for dfu here)